• Cannabis users were more likely to be extroverted and open to new experiences.
• Cannabis users reported higher levels of artistic creativity, but not a higher amount of creative achievements or completed works.
• Cannabis users performed better on a convergent thinking test (which tests creative problem solving).

“Got pregnant at the age of 19, was zero’d out, condemned, alone and lost
Became a mother & thought it best to make it official with my son’s dad attheageof 20
Got into unhealthy patterns in our relationship that led to emotional abuse and toxicity for the most part. Finally got the courage to separate at the age of 23 after going through an abortion and Sexually Transmitted Disease.
This started my downward spiral into involving myself in multiple toxic relationships between the ages of 24 – 27
Confused, lost, dark, toxic relationships was my drug of choice. Felt unworthy, self-esteem dragging on the floor begging to be picked up, had little or no confidence, gave up my power to define who I was to other people because I just hated the woman I had become. I constantly questioned why I was so different and abnormal.
My body defined my worth. I clearly had nothing to offer. My single motherhood didn’t even help. They said I couldn’t do any better because of my baggage. I agreed with them and gave them my power. It was their word over mine.
Finally got tired of engaging in this toxic cycle and decided to embrace my difference. At this point, I was tired! I was sick! I was done! I found my light towards the end of 2016.
Found the love I had been seeking the whole time in myself. Things started clicking. I found my purpose. I realized I had a story to tell and was determined to share. I was worthy and enough the whole time and didn’t even know it. I finally found my voice and I promised myself to speak my truth.
I promised God that if he took me out of my misery and showed me the way, I will spend the rest of my life serving.
Currently serving and growing a tribe of women who believe in their power to create their stories and would do anything to make it happen.”

The moment you agree to date a married man, you agree to be a second class woman, and every second class person is classified as a person of lower values. Now look at it this way.. If he is with you & his wife calls, he lies that he is still at the office or on an official assignment.You dare not interrupt his conversation or query him. But you can't call him when he is at home with family.....

My sisters, you be toy? He sneaks you from his car into his hotel room but gives his wife his entire home.....

My beloved sisters grow up, please! He visits you at home & you introduce him to friends & neighbours as your boyfriend thereby blocking your chances of getting a genuine suitor, yet
 you don't even know the name of the street where he lives.....

My sisters, how long will you continue to sacrifice your future? He takes you out & buys you assorted types of alcoholic drinks, yet he will never allow his wife taste even a drop of alcoholic drink. Common sense should tell you he is only doing that to get you drunk so he can truly destroy you in bed......

My dear sisters, na your body good pass for experiment? He gets you pregnant & gives you money for abortion, but when his wife gets pregnant he celebrates & gives her money for antenatal & baby things......

My sisters remember he is already raising his family. Oh just in case you don't know, he describes your emotions when he is with his friends but will never mention whatever happens between him & his wife. This makes all his friends see a lesser human in you......

My sisters, na your matter them take they drink beer ooo. He gives you a few cash & you're happy not knowing that whatever money he gives you is what he calls "Body no be firewood allowances" You have his picture on your phone & saved his number as "My Sweetheart" or whatever, yet your
 picture cannot be found on his phone & your number is saved on his phone as generator mechanic or refuse dispose........

My lovely sisters, you be learner? PLEASE let's give ourselves a proper re-evaluation today. Please help me to pass this message round to educate our ladies by tagging each & everyone on your page. Just a piece of advice.Thanks.

Source:Facebook user,name withheld.

It’s an open secret that African men have a soft spot for thick women. Unlike their counterparts in western countries who prefer the thin and slim, most men in the motherland like their women to be well rounded with some amount of flesh in the right places. It makes one wonder what exactly it is they see in such women that makes them go crazy


Let’s take a look at some of the reasons African men love thick women.

Hardworking
A typical African woman is strong and hardworking. Not only does she take care of her husband and children, she also ensures that the home is in order. Laziness doesn’t exist in her dictionary. Before the imitation of the white man’s lifestyle, African women flaunted their thick bodies with pride as they took pride in catering to their families doing chores from the house to the farm. Times may have changed, but that image of the African woman still lingers in the hearts of most men. With a thick woman, they don’t have to worry so much because they are sure she can hold the home together.

Ego booster 
Most African men consider the body size of their woman as a yardstick for measuring their substance and capacity as real men. It’s common for these men to brag about the size of their woman – the bigger she is, the stronger and more capable they feel. A petite man who has a thick woman automatically feels bigger than he is, and there is the tendency for people to accord him more respect due to his woman’s physique. Like a trophy won, he goes around, flaunting her to the world.

Curvaceous body 
When a thick curvaceous woman passes by a group of African men, they turn in her direction in complete admiration. Figure 8 is a popular phrase used among African men to describe the shape of the kind of women they like. And most figure 8 women are thick. Adequate flesh fill the right places like a beautiful art painting to form this highly coveted body shape. Every outfit such women wear look good on them because their sexy bodies accentuate the outfits.

Softer and tender body skin 
One of the characteristics men find attractive in women is the softness of their body. In the dark, a man can easily identify a woman by her body texture. Thick women have more flesh which makes their body to be soft and womanly. For most African men, being with a skinny woman is like being with a fellow men as there is little or no skin to touch or feel.